FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
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Question: How can I
find others who do Reiki ? I feel I am alone in this.
None of my friends understand.
Answer:.. Reiki
is everywhere. Millions of people do Reiki everyday. In
the future, everyone will know of Reiki & other forms of
self empowerment & healing.
It is evolution. Look in the New Age Magazines, go into
the New Age shops, go to the festivals, meet new people in new
places, join meditation
groups. Do more Reiki & ask for the guidance & friendships
you seek. New doors will open. New people will come into
your life. All is available to you, when you look...........
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Question: Why is aggression a common factor in many so called love relationships?
Answer:.. There
is a famous quote "Aggression is the final act of a limited mind" This simply means, when one runs out of ideas & feels powerless, the next desperate attempt for control is to force their will upon another. Often what many believe is love, is a need for approval & someone to fill a void in their life, a void that can only be filled by self love & self approval. When someone's emotional security is being challenged, many will act with aggression, triggered from fear of loosing someone or something they believe they need. Truth is, no-one outside the Self can fill that void. When it's not working, one must...... "Look Within".
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Question: Someone asked. What is Fear?
Answer:..... Fear is the Absence of Faith / Love. The Absence of Knowing / Truth.
If you are thinking a thought that is not of Love, that thought is
coming from fear. If you act in a way that does not express Love,
you are acting out of fear. If someone speaks words that are not
Loving, they are expressing their inner pain & fear.
If you read a book that instills fear not Love, that one is expressing
pain & fear. If you listen to a teacher, who teaches fear not Love, stop listening & find
another. Only Love Works. Only Love Heals. Love is Always the Answer.
Love Yourself, Love Your Creator & Let Love, Love You. In the absence of Self Love, there is Fear, Aggression & Obsession..
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Question: I
have been receiving a lot of questions about how to respond to
others who judge what we do, who do not agree & wish to argue,
having their negative opinions heard.
Answer:.. I
would say: That's OK. That's an interesting point of view too.
However, this is mine and I am at peace with this one Now. This
works For Me Now & I am always free to change & choose
again if I want.
When they are at peace with themselves, they too will have no need to argue or be heard or force their opinions on you.
This does not mean to judge them, but to allow them the right to their views, as you do, as long as they do not insist on imposing theirs upon you or interfer with your peace.
If they do not Respect Your Freedom to choose what feels right for
you, do not be drawn into an argument, just love them & walk away. Be your own truth, not someone else's. Equal Respect & Allowance is the balance.Nothing Less Than Love & Respect is good enough. All else is illusion, confusion & fear......Be in Peace Love & Joy,
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Question: This week I was asked.......Am I Religious?
Answer:...I
believe in God. If God has a Religion, I am there.... Religions
are great, like restaurants. They all serve
food, but have different flavours. One chooses the one they like.
And sometimes they change
to another. Religions offer stepping stones. Opportunities for
the seekers to seek truth. When truth is found, one seeks no longer.
There are the Seekers, the Finders & The Found.
I know God, not Religion. God is The Love within me, outside me.
Everywhere. Love is all there is. Nothing else matters. Nothing
Else is real. All else is confusion & illusion.
There are many who came before us, to show us, who we are, and
what we are evolving into...They lived, died & still live & still keep in contact with us, thru channels & other
kinds of communication. There are 2003 on the planet, Now. These
ones are the Teachers, Guides, Ascended Masters etc. When one places
all their focus on them, they become that. What you focus all your
attention upon, you become. Of Myself I can do nothing, but thru
me God does all things. I came, I died, I live.......
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Question: A Gentleman in Melbourne called as he has a friend who is given 2 yrs to live and asks:
Helen, what do we do when we have a sick friend who refuses to receive the help available ?
Answer:... Be
compassionate & honour this ones choices. He may also change his mind at a future point in his Journey. All Path Lead Home, Each Soul chooses it's own path, That one being the one which will be the one that gets them there. The variety & number of paths is infinite, for we all have free choice, Some may experience the loss of a loved one or the death of many around them, Social injustices, Discriminations, Racial inharmonies, Wars, Famines, Persecutions, Physical inharmonies, Deformaties, Dis-eases, Near Death Experiences, Visions, Apparitions, SpiritualAwakenings, Channellings, Hearing the voice of God within, Clairvoyant Insights, Clairaudiance, Religion, Science, Philosophy, Seeing the Love in the eyes of a Child, the Birth of a Child, the Beauty of a flower, the Rain, the Sea, the Trees, the Mountains, etc.. No path is right or wrong, better or worse, these are judgements, made by the awakening mind still living in fear. All paths are perfect, as are you, as you are a Perfect Divine Creation, on a Journey of Self Realisation. There are no mistakes. Just Choices & Experiences. All you need to do or be is Love. Then you will see the perfection in all things. Be there for your friend with love, not judgement for that one is your teacher. Be in Peace & Love & Joy,
Always.
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Question: Helen,
Can you explain why sometimes all is going well & then it just seems to stop for a while then I slip into the old ways & get stuck there and again comes the pain & frustrations?
How can I keep Progressing ?
Answer:....This
is not unusual, we all do it. Whilst things are going well, we can
become distracted & seduced back into daily life. Many can forget
to continue with their own personal development, thinking they have
Done it. Change creates change.
The more you Commit Yourself to Yourself, Your Own Development, the more your life reflects what you have learned.
Personal Growth is a Continuing Process. A Never-Ending Journey. Always Taking The Next Step. Moving to The Next Level.
Always New Wonders to Experience. There is Nothing Better. There is No Other Way. This is Universal Truth.
This is what makes Life so Wonderful & Fun. Taking the Next Step. Moving to The Next Level is Empowering & Great
Fun.
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Question: How can we deal with situations where we give a service and people do not want to pay ?
Answer:.... Agree to a fee before, not after. i.e. an hourly rate. That way everyone is more relaxed and at peace during and after an appointment. Then just say....that will be ( $ 's ) thankyou. Keep It Simple.
If you go into a shop, everything has a price. If you go into a restaurant, everything has a price. It's expected. Don't be afraid..
If you give a gift or a discount or a freebee to someone, and this is done in the spirit of giving, you create giving to come back to you. If you are not paid in full and this makes you feel unrewarded, you will create more of the experience and feelings of unrewarded.
It is better not to give, than to give then feel regret. Feeling regret, cheated, unrewarded, unappreciated or unloved, creates more of that. What we think and feel, we create more of. It is better not to give, than to give and then regret.
If you give and receive nothing in return,
but say...."It doesn't matter".....you are in credit with
the universe.
If you give anything, give to serve the greater good, and greater gifts will be returned to you.
With clients, agree to a fee before, not after. Then your client will know what to do. They will accept or not turn up. That way you will not have a problem. Fear of asking or setting a fee will attract people who do not want to pay. You attract that which you fear. Place a value on yourself and your time and feel worthy of asking for that. Others do. Others will value you as you value yourself.
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Thank you Helen. Your timing is amazing!
Question: You
talk a lot about Allowance, what is that, How do I get that ?
Answer:.... Faith is the Key to Living in Allowance. Allowance of all things, knowing there is a Divine Plan in place and you draw to yourself that which will benefit your growth, although you may not see it at first. When you do see it, you have grown. That circumstance will pass and you will draw another, which will be appropriate for you then, for the next part of your personal Journey.
Mostly the lesson is simply: Compassion & Love, Trust, Respect & Allowance, Release & Heal, Letting Go & Moving
On.
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Question: Why is it important to release my attachment to the outcome when giving a healing ?
Answer:... In Healing another, you must let go of your attachment to the outcome, otherwise you may take the pain of another into yourself. They may get healed, but you may not feel so good after. You must then do another release and healing on yourself.
Give Reiki for the person's highest good then let go. The result
is between them & God. You are the instrument thru which God
will work His Miracles.
If you take on another's pain just say to yourself:
Who's pain is this?. This is not my pain, this is not my problem,
this is not my condition, I acknowledge it, I release it and I let
it go. Then give Reiki to yourself.
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Question: What I need to know is how to release myself from the outcome. If it is something that I feel in my heart and soul is right and should be done yet the person who is in control will not do it, how do I release? I have acted in the most loving way that I possibly know over an extended period of time but the release part is what I have not been able to achieve.
Answer:... Releasing your Attachment means to let go of trying to control that which is not yours to control. Allow the Divine Plan Be. Look within Yourself and see what this experience is teaching you and how you can grow because of it. When you give Love to the situation, it will heal and so will you. Be in Allowance, Listen to Your Heart, Listen to Your Soul and ask for Guidance.
We can only be there for another, if and when they need or ask
for our help. Offer help and guidance with compassion & love.
If that is rejected, we must honour that persons decision, knowing
they too will find the answer they need when the time is right
for them, when they have learned the lessons this experience is
offering to them. Know their Soul has chosen this Journey. This
is how you release your attachment. The wise Soul will ask, what
is it about this situation that You need to see. You have drawn
this to yourself for a very profound purpose. Be In Allowance to
receive the lesson - No Resistance. What we resist - Persists.
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Question: When giving Reiki to a pregnant woman, do I give Reiki directly to the Baby ?
Answer:... Give to the mother....
and the baby will receive what is appropriate. Just Relax & Allow.
Reiki Knows what to do.
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Question: What do I do when I ask for guidance but do not feel I am getting it ?
Answer:... Give Everything Over to God. In so doing you will receive Divine Guidance. If you feel you do not, surrender it over to God. It is so much easier than trying to figger it all out.
Just Say....I Will To Will Thy Will.................And Mean It.
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Question: Can you tell me, what is my future ?
Answer:... Your future is to evolve into greater awareness of Yourself as Love. It is the same for us all. Everything that happens in our life is to bring us to that realisation. We learn what love Is and what Love is not. Eventually we choose only love for ourselves. Nothing less will be good enough. We learn to Love Ourselves and to accept nothing less than Love from others. We give only Unconditional Love to others, regardless of what they may do or say, because we know, Love Is All there Is. Only Love Works.
How we experience that process is up to us. Some get there on the fast track, (Rapid Transformations), others take longer. Personal choices. It depends on how much resistance there is and how much healing needs to be done, Some even resist the healing, fearful of change, or.....It can happen Right NOW, in a split second if we choose to Be Love NOW.
That is who your are and why you are here and why you found me. We are all free to choose...more love or more pain.
There is only one choice, the rest is resistance. All Pain is resistance to Change........Only Love Works......
With More Love comes More Power, Power over your Own Life, Your Health and Happiness and all You choose to experience. There are no limits. We move into Greater experiences of Joy thru the attainment of enlightenment which brings Peace to all aspects of Our Life. There are no longer senseless cravings for the things of the world, for you will have everything. Therefore, there will be no-thing to crave for, everything will be at your finger tips, at your comand. This is The Power of Love. The Power that Is You. That which You Are...Forever, NOW.
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Question: What can we do when people do or say something to hurt us ?
Can we hurt them back?
Answer:... You can choose to be hurt or not......... Be As They Are......... Or Be Love..
If you copy their actions you invoke more hurt to yourself.
A better choice is to:
Answer: Do & say that which is Most Loving & Respectful, then release
your attachment to the outcome.
Ask Yourself. What can you learn from this in your life. What would Love do
Now.
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Question: What can we do to help others realise they are hurting themselves ?
Answer:... Do & say that which is Most Loving & Respectful,
then release your attachment to the outcome.
Ask Yourself. What can you learn from this in your life. What would Love do Now.
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Question: What can we do if people do not agree with us and we truely want them to ?
Answer:... Do & say that which is Most Loving & Respectful,
then release your attachment to the outcome.
Ask Yourself. What can you learn from this in your life. What would Love do Now.
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If you know someone who could benefit from this service
please feel free to forward this on.
Helen
Wenham
REIKI
SEICHIM ORION MASTER TEACHER
GOLD COAST 07 5591
6677 AUSTRALIA.
EMAIL helenwenham@austarnet.com.au
IN
THE SPIRIT OF PEACE & LOVE FOR THE HIGHEST GOOD OF
ALL
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